And to single nyets, are you in the "move-in together as soon as you can afford to" camp, or "delay it even when you already can coz reasons" camp?
Living habits play a huge role in cohabitating happily in the long term personally. Having fun and enjoying each other's company won't have much mileage if you can't stand each other's living habits!
For some, you may live together way longer than you'd be in love with each other even >.>
Sharing a home together also gives you an idea on how responsible, proactive, clean and how well they manage and balance chores, duties, and time together. In my (limited) experience, most people who has never lived on their own, generally do not take the initiative or have the know how to fix, improve and maintain a house. I suppose that's not important for some.. but for me who's always taken care of her own space and prioritises on efficiency, I have my way of doing things and living together first can help us optimise ourselves to each other, or it can also highlight just how incompatible we might be. If anything, I'd say this is just as important to a relationship as any, if not the most.
So, for you non-single nyets: any inputs? How soon did you guys move in?
not in a relationship, still with parents because cheaper and fully remote job. even if i were in one, born in a certain M race so that would be an issue.
move in to predominantly non-muslim area
I mean, I wonder if the bangsar bubble people get reported at all if any?
no idea. dont feel like risking it plus bangsar rent is high from what ive heard. maybe once i get a better job since i am getting called by recruiters weekly. after that its a matter of finding someone. pretty confident with my looks from past experiences but dont think im considered attractive to an amoi i guess haha