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How much contact is too much contact? (monyet.cc)
submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
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I've actually been wondering about this for a while. Realised this is a really good place to ask!

So when you're dating someone in Malaysia. How often do you like to check in with your partner? How much is too much or too little?

I'm a pretty independent nyet so once every couple days feels about right for me. And maybe share some funny link if it pops up. Any more and I start feeling this slightly smothering obligation hanging in the air. But I've heard a pretty wide range on what people think is normal / makes them insecure. Like some couples wish each other good morning and good night every single day kinda thing. (But also some couples wear 100% matching outfits when they go out. Pls just let me die instead)

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

How often do you like to check in with your partner?

Daily at the bare minimum. I check in with my close friends daily, would be very strange if I only messaged my partners once a week or every 3 days. Too much would be maybe every hour?

I do think good morning/good night messages are kind of creepy and excessive but I wouldnt be against wearing matching outfits just to annoy people :)>___

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Ha! Maybe they've all been trolling us the whole time

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Well, some people are legitimately wholesome so I rather give people the benefit of the doubt. Not me though >:)

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

damn, younger me used to wear matching outfit to uni with my then partner!! and i thought it was a fun thing to do! i do miss that grey T-shirt with Navy coloured GAP logo on it tho....