Update: thanks all for the very helpful advice! I think it’s really special that not one of you dunked on my DM. You all seem very supportive of a broad range of play styles and that’s a sign of a very healthy community.
I reached out to one of the more experienced players in our party, and I’ll be pinging our DM at some point over the next week. I’ll see if we can switch gears or if not leave peaceably. Thanks again.
Recently got into DND. Watched two seasons of Dimension 20 and loved them. A friend of mine offered to try DMing for our friend group. We meet every two weeks for 3-4 hours. We're playing Pathfinder using the Foundry online interface so we can play remotely.
Apologize if I mess up any terminology, I'm new.
I am two hours into this week's game right now (in another tab), and I'm so fucking bored. We're in some underground tunnel system, and just getting bombarded by completely arbitrary enemies.
Last round we spent three hours fighting a mimic and a gelatinous cube, and there was no explanation for why they were even in the cave in the first place. We haven't had a conversation with an NPC in three sessions. End of the round we come across some weird tunnel system with giant moths on one side and giant larvae on the other. No explanation for why they're there. We start coming up with a plan on how to kill them so we can get the loot they're guarding, but it was the end of the session.
This week, right when we start and try to do something about the moths, we get attacked by morlocks that came up the tunnel behind us, fight them for an hour and a half, and the remaining ones just run off. So now we're finally dealing with the moths.
Anyway, we're doing this on a giant map in Foundry. Nothing is theater of the mind. It's all very literal, and it feels like I'm playing an incredibly slow PC game just sliding my token down tunnels. Nobody is really roleplaying. We rarely get any details during our battles beyond "they look really hurt."
I don't expect anybody I know to be at the level of Brennan or whatever at DMing, but there is just no entertainment value for what we're doing here, we're constantly in combat, none of my skills are useful (because we're just fighting mindless monsters), and it's like a solid 10 minutes between my turns.
Like end of last round, I floated the idea of trying to mount and tame one of the moths (I'm a halfling, and they're big), and my DM just said "I mean, that's pretty dangerous. If you're ok rolling a new character, you can try it." Like geez, sorry for trying to make it interesting. At least give me an in-game reason for why I shouldn't do it.
I really want to quit. Any advice?
This all turned out a bit rambly, gonna send it anyway. I hope you can get some positives out of it if you do decide to read it. The last three (real) paragraphs are more structured, so if you're only gonna read part of it, make it that part.
I have noticed that playing on Foundry (or roll20 or any other VTT software) often leads to more video-gamey/war-gamey campaigns. VTTs assist the DM and players with a lot of the gamey aspects, but offer much less assistance, if any, for the other aspects of ttrpgs. This leads to a lot of the potential issues you described. In my experience, having virtual battle-map after battle-map (or a single large one) thrown at you leads to reduced creativity, especially in newer players who do have experience playing computer games.
It takes both time and conscious effort to realize that what's in front of you is not the actual game being played but just a projection. This counts for both sides of the DM screen. Some people will never clear that hurdle or even realize it's there. That is fine for some people who do love the video-gamey aspects but not for others who want the opposite, or at least more of a balance.
For example, personally I also DM a Pathfinder campaign on Foundry and I constantly have to remind some of my players that they don't need to click on all the relevant buttons the system already has programmed in. They can just say what they're doing and do a naked roll if finding the button takes more than a second.
In regards to your last paragraph. You did get an in-game reason from your DM, although they were a bit indirect with it. Your DM telling you you might have to roll up a new character also means your in-game reason is: "I feel like I might die if I try this." My advice in that specific situation would be to lead by example and roleplay your character going through those thoughts/emotions. I know it can be awkward, might even get a giggle or two from the other people around if nobody else has done any roleplaying yet this session or campaign, but someone has to make the first step.
Also don't forget that the players have a lot of power in shaping the game. You do not have to explore a huge cave. You can walk out at any time, go to a town and talk to people instead. It's kind of a dick move though if you let your DM prepare this cave for days, letting them believe that's what you were interested in, only to then not engage with it. Of course that requires all the players (or at least a good number of them) to be on board. To find out what you all want to get out of this game together, communication outside the game is required.
I'm gonna be devil's advocate for the last three paragraphs of my rambling response:
Do you actually KNOW that the enemies you're fighting are arbitrary? Do you know there is no explanation for the mimic and the gelatinous cube? No explanation for the moths and larvae? No explanation for the Morlocks? Is it possible that your characters just haven't found those explanations? I've placed enemies in my games before and the players never found out WHY they were there (the characters never even bothered thinking about it in some cases) but there was always a in-universe reason. And even if your DM didn't initially have a reason, I would assume they will be able to come up with one on the spot.
For example, Mimics are described as: "A mimic can remain in its alternate form for an extremely long period of time, sometimes remaining disguised in a dungeon chamber for decades. Regardless of how long it waits, the mimic remains vigilant and alert, ready to strike at any moment." They do seek to ambush adventurers so hiding in a cave that would be attractive to adventurers is the #1 thing they'd do. It could've wandered in 10, 20, 30 years ago, biding its time. Saying something like "I investigate the area around where the mimic was, trying to find any hints whether it has moved recently" after combat could lead to you learning more context about how the mimic got there. Same with the moths and larvae, you could try finding out if they've been born and died in this cave? If something made them flee their previous homes (especially "easy" if you have anything to converse with animals), etc. I don't think it's the DMs responsibility to give you context unprompted. It's their responsibility to give you context once you're looking for context, and even then, you still might need to pass certain rolls to get context. In the end, most of the time, the DM shouldn't and wouldn't give you any info your characters wouldn't have.
This also extends to other areas you complained about. If you want more information but your DM doesn't immediately provide it, prod them for it through character actions. "What is this Morlock I'm fighting wearing?" "What's the color of the stones here?" "How high is the ceiling?" "Can I hear anything at all?"
I think you're on the right track with your Update though. Best of luck!
You raise some good points about VTTs, but on the other side, I'll say that it also provides some tools that can make an immersive experience easier. I DM'd the first time on roll20 and got really into it.
We were doing Phandelver and I made a bunch of custom maps to supplement the default because it allowed me to have different music for each map so I didn't forget to change it for atmosphere.
I uploaded a bunch of custom .pngs for tokens and stuff on maps.
Made handouts for monsters and important NPS so the players had a better picture of it than the small tokens.
Sound effects for events.
You can set dark vision and view distance for each character so you don't have to keep track of who can see what.
You can put AC and HP on tokens for players and enemies only viewable by the DM for easy tracking.
You can have tokens hidden on the map that only the DM sees and can change the layer when the trap is sprung.
It actually made my fist time running a game a lot easier and the tools enabled me to be more creative as I found new things I could do. Also, I'm bad at voices so I got a voice changer program and it was much better for them than my poor attempts at sounding creepy or scary.
Yeah, I’ve personally been advocating leaving the cave since like day 2 (our original mission was just “investigate the cave that just opened up and report back), but nobody else in the party wants to do that.
Good point on doing more investigation checks. We definitely did a lot more of that at the start of the campaign. Finding patterns in the dust on the floor, learning about the NPCs we found, etc. But I guess people lost interest in that. His descriptions have never been terribly descriptive anyway.
The reason I say arbitrary is that we live in a world like 1000 years in our future where humanity forgot how to make technology, but some is still around and still working. A cave randomly opens up during an earthquake and we investigate to find it filled with robot automatons that have been keeping themselves functioning by scavenging parts from the dead robots and bones of the dead humans that ran the facility in the past.
So like, if all the humans starved to death and died 1000 years ago, and we were the first ones back in the cave (we had to solve a puzzle to unseal the door, and none of the robots apparently escaped in the meantime), why is there a thriving group of morlocks in here?
Looking back, we never tried asking where the morlocks came from, but I’ve gotten the feeling from our interactions that we wouldn’t get a very satisfying answer if we asked. If he had written one, I’d hope he’d nudge us in the right direction. Most of the group has never played before, and leaving everything up to us has lead to very repetitive results.