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Hang out with them and show a genuine interest in their feelings. See them on a regular basis, like breakfast every Saturday morning.
When they speak, listen fully. Make sure they are seen for who they really are.
Do what you can to help heal the empty spot they’re trying to fill with their addiction, keeping in mind what you can do is limited.