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[–] [email protected] 230 points 1 year ago (7 children)

I am hesitant to put my hands on the chest of a woman who hasn't given consent.

[–] [email protected] 125 points 1 year ago (3 children)

One of the few cases where consent of anything can be assumed is lifesaving of a person unable to respond. One of the first steps of cpr is to seek a response to ensure that the person is unconscious before then confirming no pulse.

But yeah I get why it’s awkward

[–] [email protected] 54 points 1 year ago (13 children)

Yeah but the mob around me watching me touch her breasts might not know that.

[–] [email protected] 74 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I'm not CPR certified or anything, but I think if you're just grabbing titties you're probably doing it wrong.

[–] [email protected] 33 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Mobs unfortunately don't react much better if you palm a woman's sternum

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

Can you post any example of a mob attacking someone for performing CPR on a woman?

Seems like a pretty wild assumtion that you will be attacked for helping someone in a life threathening state by some nebulous "them."

[–] [email protected] 29 points 1 year ago

I can't speak to its actual prevalence, it's clearly perceived by a large enough number of people to affect these stats. Where this paranoia ultimately comes from we can only guess

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago (3 children)

You’ve NEVER seen someone mis-perceive help as harm?

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago
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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

No. every case I've heard of is after the emergency was over someone gets the law involved. Harassment, but never a mob involved.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (2 children)

For sure! But I didn’t say you WERE grabbing titties, just that you’re perceived to be.

I mean just getting the electrodes on for a defibrillator you have to lift their shirt…

Can you see that being perceived poorly?

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Unlikely that someone holding a defibrillator next to someone passed out on the ground is going to be perceived poorly.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago

Unfortunately in a panic scenario like that, sometimes people don’t see things as clearly as they might normally.

And people aren’t great on a normal day either.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Not everyone is going to have access to a defibrillator.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

You would think so, right? But the reality is that men are always assumed to have the worst intentions. Especially in hindsight. i.e. "he didn't need to do that right? he must be trying to cop a feel".

Same reason men aren't usually kindergarten teachers, because they're immediately assumed to be pedos.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

I mean just getting the electrodes on for a defibrillator you have to lift their shirt

You also need to make sure their bra doesn't have an underwire and remove it if there is.

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[–] [email protected] 32 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The instructors advise you to speak aloud your actions as you do them. Also helps if you have already levelled out instructions to the rent a crowd to perform specific tasks like send for help and get the defib and you three who said yes to cpr training let's line up and take turns doing cpr.

...of course, the training to be comfortable giving these instructions is not really done.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

Absolutely!

And what if you’re outside a bar and everyone is drunk?

Unfortunately life doesn’t provide ideal scenarios, not to mention that under the duress of what you’re doing you may forget steps.

I’m not saying that fondling an unconscious person is the same as cpr, but that perceptions are funny things.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

onsent of lifesaving attempts can be assumed, not of anything

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

COWS. "Can you here me?" "Open your eyes." "What's your name?" "Squeeze my hands."

[–] [email protected] 54 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Understandable, but you only need to do it if there is no pulse. If you are doing chest compressions to save their life, I am sure the majority would be quite happy with not dying. You don't need to take off their top, and you are pressing on their sternum rather than their breasts. You can't really mistake CPR for anything else if you are doing it correctly.

[–] [email protected] 25 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You don't need to take off their top

Well, you do if using AED. Tom Scott has video on those too: https://youtu.be/ecVHYg4_vZw

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I know, but I was just assuming chest compressions, no other tools. If you're strapping electrodes to an unconscious person, and the machine is talking you through the CPR steps, it's even less likely to be assumed to be anything than what it is.

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago (19 children)

You can’t, that doesn’t mean that some white knight in the crowd doesn’t.

While I agree the risk is low, it’s not zero.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (3 children)

CPR does not save lives. It preserves a dead body until an AED or ambulance can bring it back to life. You need to remove her shirt and often bra (if there is a wire it must go, otherwise only if in the way) to use an AED so if some item of clothing is in the way don't worry about removing it.

Note that the above is generic CPR training that doesn't respect local laws which can say something different.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 year ago (1 children)

AED's will not help someone whose heart is stopped (i.e. no pulse). They are used to shock the heart into restoring its normal rhythm. It will not start a heart that has stopped beating.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago

Yeahhhh... and it makes me glad that the 'A' part in AED exists, because there are apparently a not insignificant number of people who have gotten their CPR training from TV.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago

CPR absolutely does save lives. The success rate outside hospitals is around 10%. That's thousands of lives saved every year.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Please do not say CPR does not save lives, it 100% does. And in the United States our Good Samaritan laws protect anyone from liability if they are acting in good faith trying to help someone.

I’m a paramedic in the United States, hold a certification as a flight medic, nothing I can bring, in a helicopter or an ambulance will do anything for anyone if high quality CPR isn’t performed.

To break things down, yes in adults early defibrillation does make a huge difference but in kids it is literally high quality CPR that saves them. If you’d like I’d be happy to break down the details of resuscitation, but without CPR until I can get there and attempt resuscitation, then no matter how much I throw at someone to try to get their heart beating again, they’ll still be brain dead.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

My CPR instructors put it the way I wrote it to encourage us to spend more effort on getting the AED and paramedics there fast. If you do CPR before the AED/paramedics is on the way you are wasting time, but getting those has been started CPR is important. However this is clearly semantics, I think we are all in agreement that CPR is important.

Not all states have "good Samaritan" laws. Most do, but if you live in the exception you might suffer harassment after doing CPR, including go to court - odds are the court will throw the case out, but it will still be annoying to do the right thing in those states. Though even lacking such laws, the odds that anything will happen are low.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Also not everyone lives in America. In more conservative places in Asia, touching a random woman (even if she is unconscious) and clearly in need of help is really asking to be judged.

And if a video with accusatory narration is posted on tiktok or something, you're basically done for. Especially in a small town or country. You're basically doxxed and won't be easily hired for work because background checks are easily done, and the company (basically the HR) isn't going to risk the bad rep of hiring a potential molester, rapist, etc even if it's just an accusation by random people.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm pretty sure most places in the states have laws protecting people but there have been people who were sued for giving cpr to someone who wasn't very grateful.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

Good Samaritan laws.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

If you have cpr or aed training....and a person is unconscious, consent is implied. Especially if you follow training. You felt for a pulse and/or they were not breathing, you will not get sued in this country. If someone manages to get it to court, they will lose.

I am a certified CPR and AED , a registered WFR and just had a training class on the matter. As long as you follow proper protocol you are ok. And I'd like to add, as a man, yeah, I'd be nervous also exposing a womans chest in a crowd, people are stupid, but you can probably save a life.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

If you're doing CPR they're effectively dead before you start. If you're the only one there, no witnesses unless you manage to save her. If you're not alone, you should tell them you're going to start CPR and order them to call 911 or 999 or whatever. Or volunteer to call while they start compressions. Then you can take over/take turns and vouch for each 's intentions.

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