Fairphone

Yeah for me I can't seem to remember if I ever had a crash on it, so on that part no worries. When you setup your phone, they ask you if you want to create an account on their cloud, but you can do without. If I remember well, it's only the note application that needs it to work, but you can always download another one and never mind again. If you choose to create an account, you get 1Go of free storage, but as it syncs your whole storage (pictures, documents...), it gets filled up instantly and then regularly reminds you to either upgrade or clear up your storage. I couldn't find a way to set the folders I wanted to sync, so it kept annoying me until I removed my account from my device. Finally recently I've set up a Nextcloud instance and as their Murena cloud is a fork of it (if I remember well), the note application works with no further configuration if you hayve the Nextcloud app. Finally, on the iOS style, I personnaly hate it. So I tried a few FOSS launchers day 1 (can't bear to have a homescreen filled with ads), and settled with NeoLauncher, which offers a pretty standard Android experience, with the customizable homescreen and the app drawer. It can even hide the few native apps I couldn't uninstall, like the default browser and the default note app when I was not using it. So yeah, I definitely recommend you to give it a shot.