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For me it is the fact that our blood contains iron. I earlier used to believe the word stood for some 'organic element' since I couldn't accept we had metal flowing through our supposed carbon-based bodies, till I realized that is where the taste and smell of blood comes from.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 55 points 1 year ago (7 children)

there's people that don't like music.

[โ€“] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I used to be like this, but with movies. When I first met my wife, she was utterly baffled at the concept of somebody not enjoying movies, and she made it her mission to make me enjoy them.

Come to think of it, she actually doesn't like music much. I've failed to change her opinion on that though because my taste in music is shit (and I'm proud of it.)

[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I am still like this with movies and TV.

It just doesn't appeal to me. I've seen a handful of movies/shows that I'd call "not boring as shit" ever, and even then, its not something I'd choose to do myself, but is fine if I'm, like, chillin and chatting with people or whatever.

Might be my neurodivergence, might also just be how much of a reader I am. Movies are just so slow compared to reading.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

That's basically how I was. Honestly, the reason I enjoy movies nowadays isn't really because it's my thing, but because my wife is always so excited to show me the movies she likes, and I can't help but enjoy myself when it's making her happy.

I rarely watch movies on my own, or with other people besides her, but when I do, it's usually because I think it'd be fun to tell her all about it, and maybe watch it with her too.

I'm also bigger on reading, but I have really severe, unmedicated ADHD, so I can't sit down with an actual book for longer than a few minutes. Gotta have pretty pictures, like a manga or graphic novel or something (and even then it's hard.)

[โ€“] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Good movies demand attention.

Good audio books I can listen to while I play my favorite video game.

[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

I'm the opposite. I can't ever 'zone out' while listening/watching/reading/playing stuff; I can't even listen to music while playing games, and usually turn background music on low or off.

[โ€“] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

As a person who was born liking music, I indeed find it too bizarre to believe to be true.

[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I thought my significant other was one of these to a certain extent. It does weird things to me as a DJ. Turns out that she just likes the limited music that she likes and cannot stand most everything else.

[โ€“] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

that just makes it easier to make a playlist with all their favorite songs.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Chipmunks and Avett Brothers, a playlist only rose colored glasses can help with.

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

For me it's not like I don't like music, but there are large stretches of time, where I do not care so much for it. I would guess that I haven't actively choosen to hear music for weaks, possibly months, now. Obviously excluding the music you can't avoid, like background music in movies and video games etc.