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I feel like my house is constantly a fucking mess. My wife and I work 80 hours between us and we have a 2 year old and I feel like it's constantly a mess.

We do what we can and often spend a couple hours on a weekend tidying but it's a losing battle.

How do you cope/keep on top of things?

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

My wife is someone who cannot relax unless they house is pristine. We have a two year old also, and it seems never ending.

Somewhere on a lifehacks post, posted that they set their phone for a 15 minute Timer each day.

I do it on my watch now, silently. Each day. My wife hasn’t caught on to what I’ve been doing. But I can say is I’m having far more sex than ever.

(It’s still never ending, and seems to just shift room to room, but just more manageable)

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Look at Mr stud over here lasting a whole 15 minutes !

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Hmm. Seems to be taking longer as I age.