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How to be less racist/bigotred? (lemmy.world)

submitted 1 year ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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So I am a part of the LGBTQ community and work in a big city in middle europe. A lot of my coworkers are religios and have a foreign background. They are mostly very nationalist and homo-/transphobic. I hate them for their blind hate and bigotry, which wont change. I have realised, that I have become a bit bigotred towards people like them in the last few months, which is, even tho my biases often revealed to be true, just unfair to them. How could I stop that?

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[–] [email protected] 86 points 1 year ago (17 children)

It sounds like you're describing the Paradox of Tolerance.

The paradox of tolerance states that if a society is tolerant without limit, its ability to be tolerant is eventually ceased or destroyed by the intolerant. Karl Popper described it as the seemingly self-contradictory idea that in order to maintain a tolerant society, the society must retain the right to be intolerant of intolerance.

I don't really have a good answer other than follow your heart, I guess.

[–] [email protected] 38 points 1 year ago (5 children)

It's not a paradox, it's a social contract. Tolerance is only deserved by those who are tolerant themselves.

https://archive.ph/vL5iT

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

It is a paradox because there's no objective, universal definition of tolerance. It's literally impossible to be tolerant of everything. So you're left with different forms of what intolerance people deem acceptable.

People make the same mistake about bigotry. It's impossible not to be a bigot. You just don't want to be the wrong kind of bigot. Now if only we could all agree on exactly what that was.

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