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Do you expect people to remember your birthday, or do you just let them know when it's coming up? (lemmy.world)

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I had a discussion recently with someone about this. Since we don’t really celebrated our birthdays we weren’t sure what’s “normal “.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

It is on my shared electronic calendar, physical home calendar, and I remind people that I want to have plans with. I also decorate for housemates' birthday weeks.

I don't tell strangers.