Transfem
A community for transfeminine people and experiences.
This is a supportive community for all transfeminine or questioning people. Anyone is welcome to participate in this community but disrupting the safety of this space for trans feminine people is unacceptable and will result in moderator action.
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This community is supportive of DIY HRT. Unsolicited medical advice or caution being given to people on DIY will result in moderator action.
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Some helpful links:
- The Gender Dysphoria Bible // In depth explanation of the different types of gender dysphoria.
- Trans Voice Help // A community here on blahaj.zone for voice training.
- LGBTQ+ Healthcare Directory // A directory of LGBTQ+ accepting Healthcare providers.
- Trans Resistance Network // A US-based mutual aid organization to help trans people facing state violence and legal discrimination.
- TLDEF's Trans Health Project // Advice about insurance claims for gender affirming healthcare and procedures.
- TransLifeLine's ID change Library // A comprehensive guide to changing your name on any US legal document.
- Gender Spectrum // Resources for youth, parents and family, educators, mental health professionals and faith leaders.
Support Hotlines:
- The Trevor Project // Web chat, phone call, and text message LGBTQ+ support hotline.
- TransLifeLine // A US/Canada LGBTQ+ phone support hotline service. The US line has Spanish support.
- LGBT Youthline.ca // A Canadian LGBT hotline support service with phone call and web chat support. (4pm - 9:30pm EST)
- 988lifeline // A US only Crisis hotline with phone call, text and web chat support. Dedicated staff for LGBTQIA+ youth 24/7 on phone service, 3pm to 2am EST for text and web chat.
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Why the skull?
Sexual desire & function decreasing is commonly seen as a negative thing, and dysphoria not improving is clearly negative - so I am attempting a kind of sympathetic humor at the unfortunate irony of a treatment being unsuccessful. It makes me sound monstrous, now that I have to explain it.
Thank you for explaining.
Personally we do not think desire decreases completely, but in our own experience it has changed and made us wish for different functioning. Perhaps we always had that to some degree but the problem is that medical science is not really a place for many of us to feel congruent in our desires and functioning, that is why it is a problem for many trans femmes, we believe.
As for functioning without the medical science currently able to provide us what we require, this can be true somewhat. However, it can be mitigated by alternative practices.
Estrogen increased desire significantly for me, but I personally wish it had decreased desire and functioning. I like the atrophy (esp. when I started to think of myself in normative terms as a woman), and I would prefer a much lower libido, I think I would (selfishly) be happy with no libido.
Part of the problem with this study is that it has such a small sample size, dysphoria clearly decreases for many trans people when they take HRT and there are many, much larger and better studies showing this.
I don't really follow what you mean about medical science and congruence with desire and function, or what you mean by alternative practices.
We mean that medical science cannot give us certain body parts that would increase sexual functioning such a clitoris, certain glands nor ovaries, a womb etc (yet) and by alternative practises we mean kink or possibly certain cultural practises like tantra etc.