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Who's the cheap one in this equation?
.... the customer who is paying the owner of the restaurant for the food AND is obligated by social convention to pay extra to the waiter who is underpaid.
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... the restaurant owner who doesn't mind living in a world where we have normalized underpaying restaurant workers to the point where we pass down that responsibility to the customer who is already paying for the food.
Pay your workers a proper wage and get rid of the idea of tipping.
The owner is evil, but anyone who doesn’t tip a waiter that earns too little to be able to afford to live is an asshole.
As someone who works in the service industry, this is the argument that I see all the time. "We aren't going to subsidize your wage because your owner is an asshole." Weird, you have no problem being a patron of his establishment. Do you think that your refusal to tip somehow hurts him? Because it doesn't. It only hurts the staff. My argument always has and always will be that we increase the cost of menu items by 18% and then split that additional 18% with the staff. However, that idea always falls flat with the owner because, "We'll be the most expensive restaurant in town. No one will come here." Which is a valid concern. And so, we are at an impasse. He can't afford to pay me what I'm worth, and he can't increase the cost of the menu or he'll outprice his customers, and I can't quit because it's not better at any other restaurant. In the end, in any direction, the customer is going to pay more, either as a tip, or just for the cost of the food, or they'll pay with worse service because the experienced staff can't afford to work there anymore. Refusing to tip isn't a protest, it's just being cheap and making yourself feel better about it. If tipping went away, prices would have to increase, and either way, the buck stops with the consumer. Want to eat cheaper? Cook at home. I'm sure you'll be just as good as any of your favorite restaurants with their specialized equipment and cooks with a decade of experience.
I hope all you downvoters have something of value to contribute... Oh, no, you're just downvoting to show your solidarity with the rest of the cheap-os? Ok, enjoy your meal.
I don’t know why you’re downvoted, it’s the average decent opinion: the pay has to be somewhere, either fixed in the prices or in decent tips.