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Looks like my account was banned/restricted for the above interaction, have already sent the mods on world an email asking if they'd be willing to reverse that. Had an episode of psychosis a few months ago where I did say some offensive stuff, (understandably) got a 3 month ban on .lol for that, so could see my account having been flagged.

I uh, I don’t think it’s reasonable to expect people to check others profiles to ensure we are correctly pronouning them… when making a throw away comment that is less than 10 words involving a ludicrously common saying. Jerboa does not show users pronouns. I could switch to an app that DOES show the pronouns, do any Lemmings have a recommendation for a free Lemmy mobile app that has that feature?

Edit: Edie chimed in, Jerboa does show pronouns. It's a formatting issue with mobile vs browser (She has them on individual text lines so they don't appear on mobile).

Was just going to respond to the user in question to let them know I wasn't purposefully trying to offend that individual, to discover I'm not able to post or make comments on world now, so figured I'd see what y'alls opinion on the matter is.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Drag threw me for a loop the first time drag replied to me. I assumed it was a bit at first because this is the Internet and all, but I looked at drag's history to see what the story was, since it's not like anyone gives an introduction before commenting.

Other than the pronouns, Drag's posts are like anyone else's. Nothing was trollish, and Drag has explained drag's pronouns a few times. It's interesting to see drag's idea is to create something simpler, but as it is not very English in structure, it sounds very strange at first. I think I've gotten the idea now, though I have had to make a few corrections as I type this.

First, I think people should be able to be whoever they want to be, especially online, if they aren't doing things to be jerks. Drag has not done anyone wrong that I've seen. So if Drag asks me to call drag by something, why wouldn't I? Drag has engaged with me in a friendly way, so I owe drag the same.

Second, I enjoy it as a creative exercise. It keeps my mind engaged while writing what would otherwise be a bland reply. It's kind of fun to see language experience some flexibility and evolution, and if it honestly makes Drag feel better about drag's self, I can accommodate that. If you can't abide that, just move on and let Drag live drag's life.

Even though most of us are liberal here, it doesn't mean we're free of bias or not stuck in our own ways. Even if we don't get something, it doesn't hurt us to cooperate with someone that it does make sense to. That's just my feelings though.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Based and I-also-have-over-a-thousand-US-dollars-of-bad-dragon-pilled.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I supposed I left myself open for something like this! 🤣

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Oh I meant you’re based for being chill, and I myself have an unreasonable amount of dragon dildos hahahaha

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago

Ahh, well from what I hear, they make a top quality product, so I'm glad you're giving yourself the best!