Believe it or not I didn't mean it as a pejorative and I was literally asking. I continue to perceive the comment-in-question as having low self-awareness but tbh, who cares. But if I'm honest with myself I did intend to be rude when I wrote my comment and I don't believe anyone benefits when I write in that state of mind. So I apologize for that.

I find nothing wrong with being autistic besides that it entails additional challenges that folks face when dealing with allistic people and vice versa. But we understand it a bit more each day.