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Racist: characterized by or showing prejudice, discrimination, or antagonism against a person or people on the basis of their membership in a particular racial or ethnic group, typically one that is a minority or marginalized.
I was none of those things. I was genuinely interested in him simply because it's not something I had run across before. It's quite ignorant of you to assume my intentions or actions outside of that.
For example, the first time I heard an accent that sounded like my grandfather's outside of visiting his family (my extended family) I asked where she was from because I was curious if it was near there. If someone says they're from a state I have lived in I ask where from because we may have some common experiences.
But I guess since I'm a racist now I'll never ask anyone again. I'll just be who you have decided I am.
I don't think being interested in other people makes you racist.
Appreciate it. I don't either. Maybe the way I said it came across as weird to that other person. Maybe they're having a bad day. Hell, there are so many racist dog whistles out there that it's possible I've stumbled upon one without realizing it, even though my intention was to find out more, not to "other" him.
Wouldn't be the first time that, without context, I've accidentally said something that came across as fucked up to someone.
I'm glad you've got the freedom to say whatever you want and be like "oh dang sorry didn't mean to offend you" (and act like a victim when you get called out on your language being offensive). For those of us who aren't white we don't get such luxuries. Aka your actions (whether you mean it or not doesn't fucking matter) are RACIST
Edit cause I'll actually engage instead of being pissed. You are saying very explicitly with that question that Asian folks don't belong in the south, are alien to it, and are a curiosity. As a south Asian who lived in the south for a number of years the number of yokel ass motherfuckers who had the same attitude is too many to count (dwarfed only by the number of people who were just straight up explicitly racist). We aren't here to satiate your curiosity and if you can't grasp that I dunno what to tell you. Grand on you for being an enlightened centrist, asking a "foreign" person where they are really from (esp in a place with a strong history of systemic racism like the south) ain't cool, full stop.
Ok, I learned that you're just a jackass. Cool. Now there's no need to interact with you ever again. Go fuck yourself.
Edit: cool, I'm a racist. I promise never to interact or show any interest with anyone of another race again. I'll let them know that you told me that showing interest in another person's unique story and finding commonalities between others and myself makes me a racist.
I dunno what to tell you man. Read the other comments from non white posters in this thread. 90% of them are agreeing with my lived experience, questions like that come across as thinly veiled racism. You don't get to tell people of color what we should take as offensive or not. If you can't understand that, it's on you. Try thinking about it rather than getting defensive.