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So... How was your weekend? (sh.itjust.works)

submitted 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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Mine? As miserable as ever. My little bro wanted to go to a little comic con thing, is just not my vibe, felt surrounded by people in weird costumes is just... Thankfully I was there for like half an hour.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 4 months ago (2 children)

I had a job interview Friday and no one was there to interview me. Apparently HR dropped the ball. It’s 110 outside and I’m homeless and living out of a car atm. We had thunderstorms which meant rolling up the windows. I only have a few bucks left and therefore cannot run the AC because of gas. Once the storms were over it was back to 110 but with nearly 100% humidity and even more sweating. I’m currently stealing WiFi to write this out and I’m hungry AF. So yea, bummer about your 30 minutes.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 4 months ago

There are mutual aid communities on lemmy where you might be able to find someone willing to send you some cash through an app. Good luck.

[+] [email protected] -8 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (1 children)

Yeah it was a weird experience.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Yes that sounds like nothing compared to the hellish experience of being forced to go to comic con.

[+] [email protected] -8 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (1 children)

I think you're making fun of me but trust me it was not ok

[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 months ago (1 children)

"Making fun" isn't quite right, but they were definitely being sarcastic. I think people throughout this thread are encouraging you to be less self-absorbed so that you can 1. Enjoy things around you without feeling like you're being judged for it, and 2. Develop empathy for those you interact with.

I know it seems trite, but it's important to realize that social interactions are way more fun if you pay attention to other people and are curious about them.

[–] [email protected] -4 points 4 months ago

It really sounds trite. I just don't think I'll ever change. I'm aware enough that I'm not emphatic. That's just isn't me and I almost never enjoy things, even the things I do for myself.