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which one do you prefer? having kids or no kids? and why?? (lemmy.world)

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

I've never really felt the urge to have kids. Plus it saves on resources and finances. I have nephews and nieces already and that's good enough for me. I'm at the point where some of my friends are having kids. Others aren't. I love being an uncle.

In any case, it depends on how much you as an individual want to have kids. For me, it just didn't add up. My wife and I both don't want them. We both work and want to retire as early as possible.