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How to get over not having a good college experience? (slrpnk.net)

submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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I'm going into my last year of college and I kinda felt like I did college wrong. Like, my grades are good but everything else about college I failed at. Like socially and stuff, after 4 years I barely know anybody. I commuted(to avoid debt, and did so successfully) so maybe that's part of my problem.

But I feel college was supposed to be special time in your life and to me it has been indifferent. :/Thoughts?

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

I did a shitton of drugs and fucked everything that moved for the entire semester I was allowed to remain at university, then they kicked me out. I don't regret a single thing. Now, you'll have no debt going foward in life, which is a huge leg up, and now you can put some concerted effort into doing things socially if you want to, it's just more difficult as a university setting there's a captured community forced to interact, and it's difficult to find that on your own out in the working world. Difficult, but not impossible. Best of luck.