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If you had a chance to get laid as a teen DO IT. Or you'll regret it, especially if you never get the chance as an adult.
Hot take: sex isn't that important.
It is. Is literally what put us in this fucking land. And it's easier to say that if you at least had it.
having children is what put you here, you don't want to have children as a teenager right?
I'm not a teenager
...i never said that you were one '-'
Gonna disagree, sex isn't that important. Most ppl have sex for the act.
I follow the teachings of Lord Buddha. Being born is not the point. The point is to not be born.
That's really dumb
Life necessarily involves ageing, sickness, and death. Feel free to enjoy those over and over.
But there is literally no reason on insisting to have sex at a certain age. Especially when turning down the opportunity usually has a reason.
In the grand scheme of things youβll realize sex is not a big deal. Not sure how old you are but Iβd guess 20βs. Give it another 15 and youβll realize whatβs truly important. Meaningful relationships.
No. I'm way older
Maybe physically... But mentally no.
You're actively encouraging teens to have sex. And reading your replies it's implied that you want them to have unprotected sex to procreate to produce more kids. That's weird and creepy.
I'm willing to bet that there are millions of teen parents who would have a different view of this. The problem is that teens often don't have access to birth control, or are manipulated, or plain stupid because their brains haven't finished developing yet.
I'm sure that some people would have regrets about not getting laid as teens. But it's hardly a hard and fast rule.
No offense to the guy, but looking at his post history, I don't think if this is thoroughly tested advice....
I'm the living proof