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Or, alternatively, what did you do to another person which got you blacklisted from their life?

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Example 1. (My favorite) During the 2020 election, after Biden took the lead and looked to be the projected winner, "friend" at the time said quite confidently "Let the recount begin!" and then after [Trump] lost, she sent me one word replies. I also found out later she had a cardboard cut out/was taken in front of a picture of Trump. Example 2. (recent) During an acquaintance's birthday she said the hard n word for no reason at all. It wasn't even warranted. Nor was she driving. I set a boundary after that saying, you use that term in front of me again, we will not hang out. I don't hang out with racists.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Nor was she driving.

What's the significance of this? Is it mildly less frowned upon to be horrifically racist if you're driving?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I was providing context.