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A big misconception I've seen with polyamorous relationships (lemmy.world)

submitted 6 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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So I’ve talked to so many people. Most people see a polyamorous relationship as a separate dating scene or small group 3-4. Though I just call em polys and specify later. For me we have came up a with a system called “Closed Poly”. Meaning everyone in the group is with everyone and if we wish to add a new member, Everyone has to agree.

Then we had to add another tier to the poly because I started adding siblings and parents of the other partners. So we had where everyone was with each. Then the blood relations was not together of course separated by polys. Though the blood relations are with everyone else but their relation. Currently 48 people.

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[+] [email protected] -7 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Alright think of this way. As long as they’re an adult and consent to it of course. Love whoever you want!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 months ago (2 children)

Theoretically sure, but if my wife started going after my sister or vice versa I’d be pissed

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 months ago

I had to add I was also with his older brother but he ended that one lol. He hates his older brother but as long as didn’t harm his sister he didn’t exactly care. Since I made this aware, he knows how I treat people and love them. So he knows I will not harm her or break her heart. So within that reason he was more than fine with it for mainly that reason.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 months ago

Yeah that’s understandable not everyone can be the same as me as everyone has different views though I don’t think people should get hate for being able to love like this. That’s why I like making awareness.