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[–] [email protected] 2 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (2 children)

masculine name + feminine surname is just… wrong

I don't quite understand what you mean.
The surname is the family name and is typically not gendered in Germany.

Edit: I seem to have completely blanked out on the preceding sentence about other origins. I can see that this might be an issue.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Right, that's why I listed several languages where the surname is gendered, and people who are native to those languages (including their naming conventions) also live in Germany. Especially today, considering the exodus of Ukrainians.

For example, the current president of Ukraine is called Zelensky. His wife, who took up his surname, is called Zelenska. Or, there's Putin, and his mother/sister/wife/daughter have or would have the surname Putina. The -y and "null" endings are masculine, -a is feminine.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 7 months ago

Sorry, had a brainfart.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 months ago

And if you are from a country that has gendered surnames, you live in Germany, and are trans?