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Come, vent, chat meme a little. How was everyone’s Easter weekend? I had a uncomfortable but fine dinner with estranged relatives. I’m going to start posting the POC weekly threads on Mondays now.

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (13 children)

Really disappointed by the Hexbear crackers for that one thread. Way too many “booohoo poor me and my white feelings” with way too many upvotes. At some point, it’s my own fault for being disappointed in Hexbear Because that means I held them to, too high of a standard, and I should know better.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 7 months ago (2 children)

Was it a full-on "white people are oppressed" bogus situation?

If not, and it's what I think it is, let 'em vent for now.

Once they do so, many will know better.

I upvoted your comment and agree with you, but getting worked up over what shenanigans white people are up to and their lack of self-criticism at times will just get you flummoxed constantly.

The best policy is to patiently explain that they're wrong to see themselves as victims of racism.

Some will balk and whine, others will realize their wrong.

It's going to be a long time till white people are a minority so let's not ruin our mental health over it.

That's my policy, anyway.

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 7 months ago (1 children)

it was more like "saying you dont immediately trust white leftist makes ME sad, what about MY feeling" and "were not gonna get a working class movement like this!" (implying that thats poc peoples fault). and yeah i am no longer arguing with these people online, i have not seen any reason to think that i am capable of making a white person understand something that they are determined to misunderstand. im think ill leave that work to my other poc comrades and save my mental energy for irl crackers.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 7 months ago

lol You got it. Maybe I'll try to bridge the gap.

Yeah, they may not have ultimately meant it, but they definitely seemed to ultimately imply what you were relaying here of that interaction.

We need solidarity but it must be coalitionary as well and that means recognizing that some groups are more oppressed than others. I once saw a POC comrade say that "it's not an oppression Olympics" but I disagree with what they were getting at; if you're Autistic, trans, and POC, then you're more oppressed than a white Autistic person or POC person or trans person, imho.

That isn't to say that that singularly trans or POC or Autistic person are not suffering, but immediately, say, talking about BIPOC and how we're all " not gonna get a working-class movement like this!" is a wrong look and sends the wrong message.

Honestly, we need to communicate better, imho.

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