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[–] [email protected] 87 points 7 months ago (8 children)

This is why I can't do online left wing spaces any more. They talk the talk about ableism, but then its "why can't you boycott the only food you can eat, just eat something else", "you could talk to service workers if you wanted to, you just think you're better than them".

Then sharing a video of people with their fingers in their ears at a black music festival with a caption calling them racists, when they're clearly autistic people enjoying the festival but having sensory problems.

I blame the popular understanding/misunderstanding of neurodiversity. People think autism is just a personality type.

[–] [email protected] 25 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Well, that and the weird obsession with autocracy because they can't admit that their folk heroes might have actually just been assholes who did more to harm leftist movements than any western opposition ever did.

[–] [email protected] 32 points 7 months ago

That, the other thing, and resorting to campism to immediately choose simple, identity-based positions over complex ones that are more coherent with specific ethical principles. At least there's people who get everything right, even if they aren't too many.

[–] [email protected] 24 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (1 children)

"you could talk to service workers if you wanted to, you just think you're better than them"

As a service worker, don't talk to me any more than you have to

(edit): Felt the need to elaborate on this. It's not that I resent having to talk to you or anything, it's that we're human too and we're prone to the same anxieties our customers are. Some of us are social butterflies, but for me it gets exhausting after a while, so it's annoying when people talk to me about things that aren't related to how I can help them. It's hard enough for me to converse with people I'm actually friends with!

There's nothing you can throw at me that I won't be able to help you with, so don't be scared to come to me. But unless you're telling me you like my hair or my outfit or something, I'd rather jump straight into helping you with what you need.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (1 children)

Good news, I don't talk to anyone unless I have to.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 months ago

I’m the police and I say you have to

[–] [email protected] 14 points 7 months ago

People are fake. A lot of online spaces outside of spots like Facebook (which is Gen X/boomer territory) are more so left leaning, so a lot of people tend to spout what they think is popular. Some might believe it but won't put any efforts into practicing those beliefs, while others just simply don't believe what they're sharing.

Pride month is a good example of this. As soon as the months over most people who were spamming their socials with all sorts of LGBT support messages could care less.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 7 months ago (1 children)

And don't you dare tell a vegan you can't drink anything with plant milk!

[–] [email protected] -3 points 7 months ago (3 children)

Being unable to drink plant milk doesn't make drinking cows milk okay.

Just don't drink cows milk? It isn't essential for your diet anyway.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 7 months ago

There are quite a lot of days cows milk is literally the only source of calories that doesn't make me vomit from the intensely unpleasant sensory experience all other food gives me. So no, I'm not going to stop drinking it.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 7 months ago

I drink it and%a lot of it, and it like it.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Drinking cow milk is ok. You not liking that dont change that, or that nw Europeans are literally evolved to drink it.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Personality type that can hear the bubbles in a open soda can across the room making a fucking racket

[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 months ago

tink tink tink

[–] [email protected] 2 points 7 months ago

For that kind of thing I blame the cultural fact that today’s leftism is based on finding people to hate.

They pride themselves in not hating groups, but they do spend about 93% of their mental/social/political efforts in identifying people who need punishment.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

It realy depends which places you are. I personaly really prefer Anarchist/Punk spaces. (I am obviously a Anarcho-(Solar)punk myself) and I have better experience there than else where. I still run sometimes in difficulties but most go quickly a way by explaining my position as an Aspie. And ask them to explain why they think this is true. Tbh I don't know much how it is in auth left spaces (it is suposed to be worse not only for neurodivers people) but tankies can fuck of anyway.