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Going clubbing in your 30's is pretty mehhhhhh...
Went to Spark in TREC (old Zouk) last weekend and the scene is so different from the time I went first time around 10 years ago.
Clubs now are full of gimmicky stunt to promote their alcohol, overcrowded, and people are busy in their phones when not dancing.
Gone were the times when us males can go 'cari makan' in the crowd, score x score it's ok. But the thrill of hoping to catch attention from the opposite sex is fun enough.
I'm 30+ too but only started clubbing around 2019 and maybe it's my lack of experience of how things used to be, but I think it's pretty fun still for the music! Having said that, I think you might be able to find the experience you're looking for elsewhere because Spark's dancefloor is so packed that there's hardly any space for interaction. Especially once Blink gets on the deck - you can forget about moving laterally anymore.
Pitt Club might be good in terms of space though!