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The original was posted on /r/minimalism by /u/UpvoteBeast on 2023-10-07 06:18:58.

Over the last couple weeks I’ve had this desire of purchasing a tiny home & down the line my own bit of land & live off grid. I also saw a really good video about it recently which made me also want it more.

It become more of an opportunity especially how frugal I can be. I’m a simple guy. Waking up having a coffee on the water, cooking at home, the only problem I may face is my impulsive nature. I have this desire sometimes to buy random expensive things ever convincing myself that it’ll make my life better 98% of the time, it never does.

Anyway, I’m interested if anyone has experience in tiny homes or has a desire to get one the same.

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The original was posted on /r/minimalism by /u/vzvzt on 2023-10-07 05:41:18.

Long story short, I was widowed. We already had a lot of stuff when he passed, and the only way people know how to show love and support is with material objects so, mostly because for our children, we have amassed a tremendous amount of stuff on top of what we already do owned. I am cleaning non-stop, it’s cluttered everywhere, and I want at least 60% of it gone. I’m completely overwhelmed and I’ve been trying for months to get things sorted into donating to women’s shelters, donating to Goodwill, and etc. It’s a difficult process because my kids are small, they’re always with me, and I can’t keep their hands out of what I’m doing. Things just keep piling up and I just want to throw it away. Can I do that? Old jewelry, toys, etc? I know it sounds terrible but I’m reaching my wits end..

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The original was posted on /r/minimalism by /u/gintokiredditbr on 2023-10-06 21:25:30.

Hi guys, I decided that I need to block some apps that cause me distractions when working. The question is, do you prefer to block periods in advance that you don't want to use apps at all or only before blocks with activity? I saw that Cal Newport suggests the opposite of scheduling internet periods. Anyway, how do they do it?

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The original was posted on /r/minimalism by /u/HouLaoshi on 2023-10-06 16:42:36.

Curious what everyone does when you and your partner do not agree about what to keep/shed? My family of four live in a small apartment, so there isn’t a lot of space, and I’m a minimalist by nature. My partner isn’t. I don’t want to argue or nag him. I also do not want to try to control his purchases or behavior, as that is something I wouldn’t want from a partner myself. I wonder if anyone in a similar position has any constructive advice. If your partner wasn’t a minimalist, how did you convince them to become one, or what was the catalyst for their change? If your partner got you into this sort of lifestyle, how did they convince you or was there something that got you interested? Thanks in advance!

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The original was posted on /r/minimalism by /u/pantyfoxx on 2023-10-04 11:11:48.

I love the idea of cottage core but it’s borderline maximalism. I would have to go out and buy more stuff to get the aesthetic which I’m balking at because I don’t want clutter.

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The original was posted on /r/minimalism by /u/angelaisneato on 2023-10-04 05:05:41.

Let's say I have a bunch of food containers or anything like that, and it's not something I would be able to sell online. What do you guys do with those things?

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The original was posted on /r/minimalism by /u/No_Presentation_7417 on 2023-10-05 13:32:14.

I'm a daydreamer... and I'd like to hear your thoughts.

Imagine you've won the lottery or got an inheritance. It's not too much, but it's enough not to work, travel, and generally live a life without worrying about money.

I don't want to set some certain amount of money, because it's an INTL community, so let's say $1M isn't the same in the USA and Vietnam...

How do you spend your life? How do you spend your day? How do you spend your money?

I think this can be a very interesting thread since most of us aren't (too) attached to material things...

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The original was posted on /r/minimalism by /u/RatherBeACat on 2023-10-04 23:48:38.

Or more specifically, I hate being bothered by all the things one tends to lug around when out and about. My keys, wallet and phone are just about the only things I'd love to take because anything more than that drives me nuts. Any tips for staying organised when leaving the house when taking more than those things? There's nothing worse for me than digging around in a dark purse and not finding what I need quickly. Anyone else share this feeling?

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The original was posted on /r/minimalism by /u/SlowAndSteady101 on 2023-10-04 11:27:48.

For example:

I used to be a bargain hunter and loved shopping sales. Which in the long run actually costs you more money, time and clutters your space with things you only bought because you thought you were getting a "great deal". It was almost like a game, especially easy with online shopping. Incredibly painful if you went for things that were final sale (e.g now the clothes don't even fit you properly).

Even worse, started hoarding tons of things I didn't really ever use after discovering the free section on craigslist, etc.

These things can be beneficial but can also be a trap.

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The original was posted on /r/minimalism by /u/Libecht on 2023-10-03 10:15:59.

I've always wanted a home that looks clean and minimalistic, instead of being filled with colorful labels and packaging of different sizes. In the heat of the moment I bought quite a few organization boxes and storage containers. Then I realized, even without them, my home was never cluttered. It didn't look that nice, but everything was already organized. For example, decanting all spices leads to a clean and beautiful spice rack, but their original container, though ugly, works just fine.

I'm now torn between making my home "look" minimalistic, and keeping it actually minimalistic. How do I find a balance? Do you have some rules you give yourself?

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The original was posted on /r/minimalism by /u/sidekicknotfound on 2023-10-02 23:20:07.

So for the last year, other than food and drinks i havent bought anything. I didn't need anything. But a week ago when my paycheck arrived i somehow dived into Amazon and other webshops thinking i should get a new bag ( for commuting to work) as my current one (that i bought in 2019) is fine as it is, bit small but good. Almost a week i scoured the internet for a replacement but couldnt find anything. Today i came to my senses and stopped the search. And decided to transfer the money back to my savings. Does anyone recognize this? I wasnt tempted by ads but just a thought i once had when my jacket and laptop filled the entire bag.

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The original was posted on /r/minimalism by /u/deafpolygon on 2023-10-02 12:20:45.

I know this isn't a huge deal for minimalism, but as a tech fiend and nerd - I decided to dial down to 1 monitor from 3. The impact on my mood is almost night / day. It was becoming a little overwhelming for whatever reason.

I felt like I had to keep something active on the extra screens when they were on, or at least do something 'useful' with them. I know this is obviously only in my own head, and slightly irrational. But some days, you just can't help but be irrational and it's a relief to get rid of the other two screens. They'll be in a box for now, and I can pull them out if the need arises, but if I haven't touched them in a while - I might be selling them.

Did anyone come to a similar type of experience with their computer setup/workstation area?

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The original was posted on /r/minimalism by /u/03jessig on 2023-10-02 13:40:21.

My bedroom is small and I've bought two chest of drawers to double up as bedside tables. Hopefully this will save space as well. BUT my worry is, if I get rid of my two wardrobes (which take up loads of the bedroom) will I miss them? Has anyone else here given up or never used warddrobes? do dresses and shirts fold ok? I'm useless at folding I guess I need to learn lol.

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The original was posted on /r/minimalism by /u/Poopybuttsuck on 2023-10-02 02:49:51.

I have a series x and all the other consoles but every night I think about why I have these consoles but I do enjoy gaming. It’s just hard to justify having it all even though I have the money. I think about selling on eBay but I would only get like 280-290ish after fees and I could just take it to a game store and get like 225. I know would be getting ripped off but it might be worth the piece of mind

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The original was posted on /r/minimalism by /u/dbxp on 2023-10-02 03:08:38.

Thought this TED talk would be relevant, too many times people focus on things and space rather than tasks and time.

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The original was posted on /r/minimalism by /u/TX_Pistol on 2023-10-01 07:49:33.

I was doing so well and then life got in the way. 5 years later I’m drowning in stuff again. I’m newly divorced and desperately needing to simplify and bring peace to my surroundings. I’ve been doing ok at getting started, but can never finish. Any advice?

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The original was posted on /r/minimalism by /u/SlowAndSteady101 on 2023-09-30 23:40:21.

It's okay if they are "material things" but I'm curious what kind of things bring you the most joy/value/fulfillment/happiness.

Perhaps it is something like "the internet", "learning" , "family time", or "experiences" but the more details you can provide the better.

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The original was posted on /r/minimalism by /u/Significant-Factor-9 on 2023-09-30 11:40:10.

I travel a lot and I frequently will live a few months in one state and a few months in another. I always find furnished rooms but that isn't a guarantee. I definitely don't want to buy a bulky mattress and all the frame hardware. The idea of a futon appealed to me because I like the idea of being able to wrap up my bedding, plop it in my car and take it wherever I'm staying for a quick and easy bed setup. But the more I read about it the more of a hassle it seems. J life international seems to be the most popular place to buy one, and they recommend placing it on top of two 60lb mats to prevent mold. Not exactly as minimal as I thought. It seems like mold is a big issue with these. The state I'm living in makes a big difference too. This winter I will be in Tennessee which means lots of rain and very little sun; so I would probably be even more susceptible to mold. I am a very clean person, I wash my bedding every week, and I wouldn't mind flipping my futon everyday since I make my bed every morning. I've also heard that you could use a regular straw mat instead of a tatami which would be much more doable. Would a setup like this work? Or would it be best for me to pass on the futon.

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The original was posted on /r/minimalism by /u/NoMadness777 on 2023-09-30 05:09:45.

I’m sure this gets asked all the time… I’ve seen “capsule wardrobe” stuff online basically layering with basics. Idk… it’s just not my style. I don’t even know if I have a style. It’s hard to throw things away because I’m poor and live in my van so most things I won’t ever be able to rebuy.

For example, I have one dress I almost never wear…. I’ve had it like 18 years and have barely worn it. But maybe I’ll wear it this fall…. And I have one dress I’ve had for four years and I haven’t worn it even once but it’s so cute. In no foreseeable future will I have the money to buy clothes again so how am I suppose to cut down?

Any advice appreciated thanks.

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The original was posted on /r/minimalism by /u/dxnn1e on 2023-09-29 03:37:25.

Nowadays there’s a lot of talk about dopamine reset and how social media affects us a lot more than previously imagined. That being said, instead of always be declutterring, organising, cleaning and tidying up a immaculate house, do you also think it’s part of a minimalistic way of living sit and just do nothing at all for a while?

I like to sit by apartment window in the morning and just watch birds, trees and the sky.

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The original was posted on /r/minimalism by /u/No_Celebration_9087 on 2023-09-28 09:36:08.

Every day I hunt through my stuff and get rid of one, or a few things.

It doesn't have to be a big ordeal, just a small daily practice.

My place is getting very tidy and organized, as I have to go through drawers and closets to find things, and I end up tidying as I go along.

I like this method because it allows me to postpone certain things so I can stew on whether I really want to get rid of it.

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The original was posted on /r/minimalism by /u/RecklessExplorer0716 on 2023-09-28 00:03:40.

I've been decluttering and trying to get my life back together for months, after many failed attempts I recently decided to try The Minimalists' "packing party" declutter method. Basically in case you didn't know that's when you pack everything you own in boxes and anything you don't pull out within 6-12months you don't need and can get rid of. The downside is now I have all these boxes sitting in my apartment and looks like I just moved in or something.

Anyway, the question in the title popped up in my head today, I move every 2 years (give or take), my last move was 900 miles and was very last minute that I only had 2 weeks to pack, clean my old place and make the drive. It was insane, I wouldn't recommend, and I'm trying to make it so if I ever had to do that again it wouldn't be an issue.

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The original was posted on /r/minimalism by /u/Educational-Taro-941 on 2023-09-27 18:22:38.

I love systems improvement. I live by Kaizen. I crush continuous improvement.

What are your 1% daily improvements that help you maintain a minimalist life?

Here are a few examples:

1. We have a shelf dedicated to collecting donatable or buy nothing donations. When the shelf is full we list stuff online for free or donate it to the "Good" thrift store in town.
2. We schedule the chores each week. Everyone knows what they're responsible for at any given time. This prevents build up of dishes or laundry.
3. We use Samsung Food app for groceries and recipes. This prevents wasted food or duplication.
4. One in one out. Recently i got a new scarf. The previous scarf was donated immediately.

What about you?

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The original was posted on /r/minimalism by /u/caramicci on 2023-09-27 14:15:26.

For us fashion victims and as a daily reminder to myself, as a general rule: If it doesn't fit you, it's not worth it. If the material feels uncomfortable or is too see through to make it work, it's not worth it.

That event where you really wanted to wear something new to - imagine if you spilled Bolognese on your clothes an hour before the event. What would you wear? Your 'second' choice will most likely work just as good and you don't even have to buy something new.

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The original was posted on /r/minimalism by /u/DistributionWild1283 on 2023-09-27 05:07:53.

I'm moving from a two bed house to a single bedroom in a friend's home (crappy circumstances). I own all the necessary appliances/ large furniture but I won't be needing any of them for an unknown amount of time.

The items I'm debating storing vs. selling are: a great couch that I actually love, A new living room table that I'm not impressed with but could keep if necessary, A fridge that I love but storing for a long time might end up being a hassel, A very loved, few years old stove that I've gotten used to, And a few years old washer and dryer that work great (only a few years old) but I'm not overly attached to.

I plan on getting a storage unit for all items I won't need now but might in the future, or things I need every once in a blue moon. A smaller one is much better in terms of affordability but I don't want to get rid of major appliances and then end up needing them sooner rather than later.

Friend already has their house furnished so I don't NEED to keep anything besides basics and the extra money would be great short term, but replacing these things in the future would be a large financial strain/ extremely difficult depending on how quickly I would need to buy new ones.

So does the short term need for a little extra income and smaller storage unit outweigh the long term (possible) need for these appliances in the future? Thank you for the advice!