The original post: /r/amitheasshole by /u/Live-Chard-2304 on 2024-05-16 11:54:10.
Hello, I want to start by giving a little bit of background to what is currently going on. I rent out rooms in my home and each room ranges to $800-1000$ depending on size, whether it’s a private bathroom and all our rooms come furnished with tv, bedding and walk in closet. I have a tenant living upstairs while my wife and I live downstairs.
I have rules in my home and I’d like for them to be abided by. No talking on the phone past 11pm, and it’s not a rule, but I want windows closed at night as the air is very cold and I don’t want the pipes to freeze into the next room. Especially if she isn’t here, if she’s at work.
Lastnight, my tenant left her window open, she does it maybe twice a month but lastnight it started raining. So, I put the code into her door and I unlocked it, and I closed her window and locked it back. While there, I noticed her closet was empty. Her clothes were usually hanging out they were all packed up. Was she going to leave and not give me 30 days notice. I am quite sensitive, so I got upset. I’ve had this happen before and it’s not considerate. While in her room I also viewed how she lived. Her room was dirty and she had several urine bottles inside of her room which was disgusting. I didn’t want to touch it so I left it there. I guess she was aware of this, because when she got off of work this morning, she knocked on my door and came to confront me about this, but I didn’t want any drama and quite frankly, I am upset with her. So I didn’t open it.
I know there may be tension, but I will be avoiding her. AITA?