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General trans community.

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  2. All posts must be trans-related. Other queer-related posts go to c/lgbtq.

  3. Don't post negative, depressing news articles about trans issues unless there is a call to action or a way to help.

Resources:

Best resource: https://github.com/cvyl/awesome-transgender Site with links to resources for just about anything.

Trevor Project: crisis mental health services for LGBTQ people, lots of helpful information and resources: https://www.thetrevorproject.org/

The Gender Dysphoria Bible: useful info on various aspects of gender dysphoria: https://genderdysphoria.fyi/en

StainedGlassWoman: Various useful essays on trans topics: https://stainedglasswoman.substack.com/

Trans resources: https://trans-resources.info/

[USA] Resources for trans people in the South: https://southernequality.org/resources/transinthesouth/#provider-map

[USA] Report discrimination: https://action.aclu.org/legal-intake/report-lgbtqhiv-discrimination

[USA] Keep track on trans legislation and news: https://www.erininthemorning.com/

[GERMANY] Bundesverband Trans: Find medical trans resources: https://www.bundesverband-trans.de/publikationen/leitfaden-fuer-behandlungssuchende/

[GERMANY] Trans DB: Insurance information (may be outdated): https://transdb.de/

[GERMANY] Deutsche Gesellschaft für Transidentität und Intersexualität: They have contact information for their advice centers and some general information for trans and intersex people. They also do activism: dgti.org

*this is a work in progress, and these resources are courtesy of users like you! if you have a resource that helped you out in your trans journey, comment below in the pinned post and I'll add here to pass it on

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 9 months ago

I made an appointment for a laser studio to finally start the process of getting rid of my facial hair.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 9 months ago

I used my chosen name for the account while setting up a fresh Windows installation. Seeing it on the login screen made me feel so euphoric that I broke into tears.

10/10, would build a PC again.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 9 months ago (2 children)

I got all the paperwork together to legally change my name and gender! Then I caught COVID so I didn't submit it yet haha

[–] [email protected] 4 points 8 months ago

You're so close, Emily! Hope you recover alright.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 8 months ago

Ah that's so exciting! I long for the day when that will be me. Many, many things must happen first.

Just having all the paperwork is a huge accomplishment.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 8 months ago

It's been a tough week, not gonna lie.

Dealing with so much BS trying to get back to work after taking a brief leave of absence (nothing transition-related). The amount of burocracy involved is unbelievable.

And then facing that old bugbear of mine - loneliness. Nothing is more frustrating than being on the cusp of so many positive life changes, but depression makes it all feel empty and pointless. Energy and motivation have been difficult to come by.

I know it will pass, and everything has been trending in the right direction this year, but yikes!

[–] [email protected] 5 points 8 months ago

Honestly pretty decent. I've been kinda busy the last few days but I was finally able to relax today. The website I'm making is nearing finished. I just have to make the pages on social and medical transitioning, and then I'll publish the site.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 8 months ago

My week's been alright. Had a funeral on my dad's side of the family (barely knew the person, that side just uses funerals as excuses to party lmao). Stayed with some of my cousins and had a good time. They're more accepting of me than my mom's side of the family, so that was doubly nice.

My dog still hasn't shown up, I'm thinking somebody picked up him thinking he was a stray because he doesn't wear collars. It is what it is I guess.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Mostly I've been dealing with the fediverse spam wave. It's been an interesting week

[–] [email protected] 4 points 8 months ago (1 children)

There's been a fediverse spam wave?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 8 months ago (1 children)

It's still ongoing. A bunch of japanese script kiddies. Check mastodon and lemmy for information.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 8 months ago

I read that only 60 out of a thousand have been affected by this. I wonder if blahaj was specifically targeted due to being a queer instance.