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Following the spirit of spreading across the Fediverse (and because my main instance is down so many times, because diverse reasons) I'm intrigued about the joining instance process, because I honestly don't know what criteria to have in order to join another one if I ever want to do it.

That made me curious of how you decided to join?

I firstly join to lemmy.fmhy.ml thanks to Spez and a Reddit post from FMHY subreddit, then the tragedy occurred, then I joined to lemmy.world which is/was my main one because I pictured it like a good home, then lemmy.fmhy.net revived and I am with them too, but seems like they are in a bit of trouble with the server, finally now I am in lemm.ee, but only because I just wanted another backup, not because I searched for it especially (also it was mentioned in a comment about smaller instances and one user from here throw a joke to not join here because it sucks so that way the server would be more stable, so yeah, I joined).

To be clear I am not in search for yet another instance (that sounds like a good instance name to be fair), I just want to know how the deciding process is for you, is it just random? Is it because of personal tastes?

I couldn't care less about NSFW stuff, I don't search for it specifically, but my day won't be ruined if I see a tit.

I like gaming, tech, Linux, SBC gaming, emulation, macOS, Android stuff etc (yeah how original) should I look for an instance dedicated to that if I ever want to join yet another one? Because I see topics like this in almost any instance.

I read you lemmings!

EDIT: BTW the migration process has been easier for me thanks to LASIM, so I wouldn't be scared if I ever want/have to migrate again.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

vlemmy.net went away and lemmy.world seemed pretty active so here we are. I'm also set up on sh.itjust.works because I love the name of it.

[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I wanted to go local and the closest instances were either Finnish or Danish and I went Finnish because I'd rather not accidentally order ten litres of milk every time I try to say something

Also this is where the fountain pen community originally was. They've since moved to wayfarer but honestly? I kinda like it here. Small instance and it's name isn't just Lemmy.somethingrather like most places are. I do one day want to host my own instance though, so I can have the pride of adding yet another thing to my domain's umbrella.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Started at Lemmy.world. Also made an account on Kbin.social. And Mastodon.social. Just checking out what the Fediverse was all about. Now Iโ€™m on Artemis.camp as a beta tester for the Artemis App and loving it!

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[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

Originally started out on Beehaw due to the name. I like bees. I like cowboys. Win-win. Then they defederated from the two biggest instances, and I lost out on a lot of great communities.

Ended up switching to Reddthat since the name / URL was easy for my ADHD brain to remember and didnโ€™t require typing a novel to join.

[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

No email requirement

[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

It was nearby.

[โ€“] freamon 6 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I chose my current one because it offered Alexandrite as a front-end, and I didn't realise I could've just gone to alexandrite.app and used it for my old instance ('cos I'm stoopid).

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[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I made it. I like retro games. That's it.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago
[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

Looked for communists, found communists, stayed for communism.

[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Iโ€™m just a sh.ithead.

Seriously though, the community is awesome, love the name, and TheDude abides.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I have to admit - I have no idea what and how I came here - but I like what I see.

That's how.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

It depends on the instance - I have multiple accounts.

Kbin.social because I like the kbin software better than the lemmy software, and because Ernest is awesome.

Lemmy.world because it's definitive (when it's up).

Lemmy.one because it requires people to not be assholes.

Lemmy.ninja because the admins somehow manage to be both diligent and goofy, and because ninjas are cool.

[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

Learned about it when they banned chapo. The chapo fork wasn't a good fit for me. Mostly hang out on twitter and use this to post articles or look for longer discussion

[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Honestly picked it just for the name alone. Scrolled through a giant list and was the first to give me a good chuckle.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

Because Canada, woo! My definitely not picked on a whim choice has yet to fail me though, I haven't personally experienced any downtime or slowdowns and I like the community overall.

[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

Because I'm a developer and programmerHumor was my goto sub.

[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (4 children)

How could I not choose this one??

Also they were updated to the version that didn't have that "all the posts in a sub suddenly show up and push what you were looking at down off your screen" bug

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[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

i started with lemmy.one, but then started up my own instance. It just feels good to diy.

[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Made my own for myself and some friends. We couldn't be bothered creating account on the larger instances and have power tripping admins de-federating instances over trivial issues.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (4 children)

I have a similar story where I originally went with FMHY up until it went down. I decided to go with dbzer0 because they have a similar stance for discussing piracy.

That said, as far as I know, they have the same rule as /r/piracy when it comes to requesting or linking to content which I don't personally like. I enjoyed helping people find music and TV shows on FMHY. They also want to keep things SFW which I don't personally have strong feelings about one way or the other but I'd prefer an instance with an indifferent approach.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

couldn't join lemmy.world and i had a blahaj

[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

An overwhelming desire to never be taken seriously by the average user.

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