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Showerthoughts

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A "Showerthought" is a simple term used to describe the thoughts that pop into your head while you're doing everyday things like taking a shower, driving, or just daydreaming. A showerthought should offer a unique perspective on an ordinary part of life.

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i’m doing it because I want to make the fediverse more friendly place, in hopes of making it more welcoming for new users, and the nicer place in general. But I wonder how much is just less bots.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago
[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

I've already seen some, lets say disagreeable people floating around, but the moderators seem to be doing well to take care of it. Nothing is wrong with someone that has an opposing view, but being unnecessarily combative or straight up an asshole is too much.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

I know right! I often get more than 5 upvotes here, while on Reddit most of my comments would have only gotten 2, maybe 3.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Going to add some negativity here and sorry in advance. I'm hoping I'm being more sensible than mean. The biggest problem with lemmy for my personal experience is that there are are too many posts about itself. We have enough users to thrive as something good. Let's just do it and enjoy moving on from reddit. If new people come here and all they see are posts about lemmy, fediverse, reddit, they will feel like it's one note, but I feel like we all have more to offer. I think when there's some news or something that impacts the platform it's great to discuss. (Or if there are discussions around actual development and stuff.) In my opinion, there are just far too many.:"Lemmy people are less toxic", "isn't it nice here", "reddit is not as good", "lemmy just feels fresh","loving lemmy so far vs x". clogging the feed with low quality content. I just feel there are already enough existing posts people can comment on instead of starting new posts. I know the platform is new so it's to be expected, and I don't think negatively of anyone making these posts (i usually think positively of them as nice people), but if I didn't think it was actually hurting first impressions I wouldn't say anything.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

I think this is normal with a smaller community. Also we are the ones that care more about a healthy community. The bigger a community gets, the more dickheads will exist in it.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (4 children)

For the most part, yes. But I have noted lately that I do get some snarky people coming in with dishonest and bad faith responses. They're at least not as rampant as it would've been on Reddit. It's discouraging and demoralizing when you've got, what feels like, 100 people downvoting you to hell and 50 of them are swiping at you before deleting their accounts and doing it again because they're of the tribal mindset and you've somehow offended a part of the hive.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I get a lot of that from the .ml instance users

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

Yeah in the last week or so I've noticed an uptic in snark / downright rude responses compared to when I joined ~2 months ago

I hope the trend does not continue

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (7 children)

Nah, the main internet hive minds still exist.

I’m frequently downvoted for saying anything positive about my Tesla.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

Haha prove it, bitch! I'm upvoting the hell out of you...

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (4 children)

Even in the hay day of online discussion forum websites you'd have trolls that derail threads and bring nastiness to the forefront.

Good moderation, clearly defined rules and quality of content are key- contributes to a quality forum.

The karma farming and bridgading of Reddit is not missed here. Now if we can get some of the niche forums more population.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

I just upvote to make the posts go away. I unchecked "show read posts" and upvoting keeps my feed fresh.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Oh how I wonder how the comments will be with this streisand effect

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

I feel some redditors have the downvote button as the sole mean of power in their lives. There are some who massively downvote to the point it's concerning

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Typically, yes, but the brigaders have found their way here, so don't expect it to last long.

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