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Do those of you who are physically attractive ever feel like you get stuff solely due to your looks (hexbear.net)

submitted 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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I'm a fairly tall good looking dude and I can't help but shake the feeling I have "pretty privilege"- as it we're.

Food for my morning thought I guess.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 9 months ago (3 children)

Yes. Namely, physically attractive partners. If I got anything else because of it, I wouldn't really know the difference.

But there's no way I could have the partners I've had otherwise, especially considering I've always been pretty broke.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago

I just get people giving me the benefit of the doubt more I think and automatically assuming the best of me.

I'll add if you're what the norm deems as "weird or off" I don't care how attractive you are, you're not going to keep any sort of partner for very long.

As someone who gets told I'm an attractive guy somewhat often (by people other than my mom lol) I'd take being more charismatic over this.

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