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OP not gonna lie, this is one of the dumbest posts I've seen. It's like a straight, white guy asking: "Do you think that being white and male gives me an advantage due solely to that fact?? I'm sooooo confused."
The halo effect has been pretty well documented.
I was more so asking to get others experiences. I was about to go off on you, but, fuck it, no need for me to be an ass as well.
Kind of weird, but go off man. You obviously are kind of a strange person and have no filter.
Were you? You said this:
Not gonna lie this is pretty much a humble brag. You can try to gaslight me, but don't lie to yourself, it's pathetic.
Strange, considering you're the one who has no idea how it comes off when you pretty much say "i'm super good looking, does that mean I get an advantage???" Again, please don't gaslight me, you know what you did. You're trying to paint me as the strange one, when you're the one who started this with your post in the first place. This is some real "white fragility" vibe going on here when I legitimately criticized your post. Maybe you need to do some self-crit here. I'm just gonna leave it at that for you to think about: https://hexbear.net/post/213032?scrollToComments=false. I have nothing more to say. Disengage.
You didn't "legitimately" criticize my post. You effectively called me a dumbass for pondering something with the forum
I didn't "do" anything else. I had forgotten about this post until you drug it up from the depths again.
I didn't, but now based on your response, I'll say this: you're a pathetic dumbass who tries to humble brag about their looks by "just being curious." Try saying what you said IRL to anyone who's not tall or handsome, etc. See how it comes off. I dare you. Do it. Other than that, kindly eff off.
I'm sorry you're mad about the way you look? It's quite clear that's the issue here lol. And me just mentioning I'm good looking and tall triggered you deeply.
that feel when 6'1 with a full head of dark hair and high cheekbones with nice eyes
I'm not a wuss, so if anyone put hands on me over something so silly I'd just beat the brakes off of them.
Never said that.
Looks like you still have a lot of toxic masculinity to work through. Good luck!
laughs in 6'1 and handsome