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AI Girlfriends (lemmy.world)
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[-] [email protected] 73 points 8 months ago

Of course, I don’t believe AI girlfriends are going to completely replace relationships. But I do think that, much like online porn, they will be there – always accessible, always a temptation, always a source of instant satisfaction. And I think it’s likely that, for some, a real girlfriend just won’t seem enough on her own, especially considering nearly half of Replika’s users are already in a relationship or married.

Doesn't seem that bad tbh, the dynamic of men being expected to have zero emotional outlets other than their romantic partner has always been super toxic and doesn't make things better for anyone.

The only faint glimmer of optimism I can find in all this is that I think, at some point, life might become so stripped of reality and humanity that the pendulum will swing. Maybe the more automated, predictable interactions are pushed on us, the more actual conversations with awkward silences and bad eye contact will seem sexy. Maybe the more we are saturated with the same perfect, pornified avatars, the more desirable natural faces and bodies will be. Because perfect people and perfect interactions are boring. We want flaws! Friction! Unpredictability! Jokes that fall flat! I hold onto hope that someday we will get so sick of the artificial that our wildest fantasies will be something human again.

This article is pretty reasonable

[-] [email protected] 45 points 8 months ago

I’m in a men’s group where we act as that for each other, and the married ones’ wives love it because they don’t have to be the sole support system for their husbands any more.

Men are so closed off it’s horrible. I do sales and have so many customers and I can just see the loneliness in their eyes, their mannerisms. They continually consider their own needs and feelings to be rounding errors, like I was doing before this group.

I didn’t realize how deeply my sense of self had been crippled by our culture. I’ve never been in a more warm and supportive place than that group.

[-] [email protected] 14 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

Just for curiosity's sake, how did that men's group came to be? And, hypothetically speaking, are you accepting new members?

[-] [email protected] 5 points 8 months ago

I don’t know how it came to be. It’s got multiple chapters. Ours is full but others like it are accepting all the time. I just found it by googling for men’s groups, and searching on meetup.

I remembered feeling envious when my girlfriend told me she had joined a women-only yoga thing. I was complaining about how men never get to kick the women out any more and have men-only time. She encouraged me to look again and see if I could find something.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 8 months ago

I just found it by googling for men’s groups, and searching on meetup.

Honestly I expected any group found like that would be toxic and just seeking to radicalise lonely men, but it's heartening to hear I'm wrong

[-] [email protected] -2 points 8 months ago

I was complaining about how men never get to kick the women out any more and have men-only time

Lol ya dingus

[-] [email protected] -1 points 8 months ago
[-] [email protected] 1 points 8 months ago

What part of that is confusing for you?

[-] [email protected] 1 points 8 months ago

The part where you quoted a sentence I said then called me a dingus. What’s the connection?

[-] [email protected] 0 points 8 months ago

The thing you said makes you a dingus, it's really not that complicated.

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