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Bro, really? You wonder why people are nasty to you. I try to love all humans, but you are making it hard, but here I go anyway: Others attitudes towards you starts with you. Try to change it. Not with hate, but with love. If a parent did parent “as you do”, they would be a literal abusive parent. If you are in a shitty situation, try to get out, but stop making the world a shittier place. I don’t want you to be or feel shitty, I really don’t. Try to find happiness friend. This is all the advice I have for you. Please, please take it.
I spent my entire childhood doing that, and all your reaction was to resist me and make sure nothing I did would change your mind.
Think about this logically: why would you ever consent to letting me change your mind? Why would you let me take control of you and start deleting who you were? Let me destroy your authority over your mind by letting me modify it? Of course you wouldn't do that. You wouldn't let some stranger break into your house - why would you let them break into you mind?!?
Which I know no human really has a problem with, because my parents did worse, and you applauded them and copied what they did and tortured me yourselves.
There is no "out" - my shitty situation is life on Earth, stuck here with humankind. And before you mention it, "moving" is what triggered everyone's abuse in the first place. You assholes assert I "don't belong" anywhere on this planet- that why you all want me in chains or dead.
Oh, so I can be an addict, like you? So I can be strung out on happiness, and resort to worse and worse behavior to get the same high?
Every person who abused and abuses me is strung out on happiness; they have to torture me in order to get their next "fix". Happiness is a drub that drives people to evil. I will not succumb to evil; I will not hook myself on your line.
Why beg, when you can simply rape me with it, just like everyone else does?
Been there, so I know that there’s nothing anyone can say to improve the trust issues. People on lemmy are generally pretty nice, and a great alternative to a forum full of rage addicts, so feel free to stick around.
People are people everywhere - which means they are raging, malignant narcissists who prey on the isolated and unpopular. No one is "pretty nice" except to their exclusive social circles that no one else is allowed in.
This conversation is proof of the opposite, but venting is healthy so feel free to continue.