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[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 year ago (9 children)

Parents seem to think this is what happens, and that's the main reason why we've got iPad kids

[–] [email protected] 43 points 1 year ago (6 children)

To a certain point it does, but you have to manage the kid. I think the best advice we got was “don’t tell the kid it’s time, tell the kid they got a minute then it’s time. Start a one minute hourglass. The kid will understand and mentally be ready.”

This works wonderfully. “In one minute we’ll turn off tv and brush your teeth.” That’s it. You’re not taking his toy out of nowhere anymore, you made a pact with them and they know exactly what’s going to happen.

Sometimes it doesn’t work; that’s because the kid is too tired or emotional. That’s still on the parent for not reading and managing the cues.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

We LIVE by the timer with my 5 year old and he rarely throws tantrums anymore. Have a nice 20 minutes colored time that's super easy to see the time tick down and any transition we give him 5~ minutes notice.

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