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[–] [email protected] 26 points 7 months ago (13 children)

Not to belittle it on either side but I do wonder what causes that disparity. Is it that men plan it more thoroughly or have access to more dangerous methods? Do women choose methods that, unintentional or not, can be backed out of more easily? Are women more likely to report a failed attempt than men? If that 2-3x factor is true, then why don't we see similar numbers of idk completion? I hesitate to say success because it is very much not a success to commit suicide, there are always other options, even if they're not perfect.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 7 months ago (3 children)

I've heard the claims that women generally opt for less effective methods because they're more likely to want to leave an opportunity to back out, or try to avoid leaving a messy corpse. I have not data here, these are simply claims I've heard.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 7 months ago (2 children)

I've heard the latter, as in even in death women are thinking about others.

Anecdotally, I've heard that almost universally. Every woman or girl I know who has chosen not to commit suicide, someone having to find their corpse factored highly in their reasons.

[–] [email protected] -2 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Someone being there to find them in the first place might be a factor in all this.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

When you commit suicide your corpse doesn't just disappear after a few days. Somebody has to find it sooner or later, whether that's the paramedics/police or someone else. And yes, seeing someone's corpse after they committed suicide is very traumatic, even to emergency responders

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