In the communities of Chiapas, as well as in the rest of Mexico, structural violence leaves women in a subordinate role in practically all areas of public and private life, also violating girls' access to the full exercise of their freedom and autonomy. Indigenous women suffer from the triad of oppression and violence - gender, race and social class.

The Fray Bartolomé de Las Casas Human Rights Center (Frayba) walks alongside and hand in hand with strong women who fight and seek access to justice, autonomy and a life free of violence.

What does Frayba do?

Frayba accompanies and strengthens individuals, families, groups, organizations, communities and peoples who walk the horizon of their autonomy and self-determination.

What do we do with your donation?

When you decide to support us on a monthly basis, you contribute to us continuing to accompany women and their strengthening processes, in addition to carrying out national and international advocacy actions that make visible the violence they suffer in our country and in the communities in Chiapas.

Why do we need to join forces?

Faced with the context of generalized violence - which manifests itself in threats, torture, forced displacement, femicides, etc. - and consequently impunity, the most vulnerable continue to be women, children and adolescents.

The Executive Secretariat of the Public Security System (SESNSP) announced in its report "Violence Against Women, Criminal Incidence and 9-1-1 Emergency Calls" that from January to December 2022 it recorded 2,807 murdered women, This figure a total of 968 Mexican women were victims of feminicide.

In 2019, Mexico ranked first in feminicide out of 24 countries, reaching levels never seen before with more than ten murders of women per day; in 2022 that figure will increase to 11 women.

The women that Frayba accompanies are a fundamental basis for the articulation of cases and processes that seek peace, justice, truth and equality; They also participate in spaces for analysis, reflection and training for decision-making in their groups, organization, communities and towns. In addition to being protectors and providers for their families, they become DEFENDERS OF HUMAN RIGHTS.

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First of all, men dying early from overdoses, suicide, risky behavior, certainly IS a topic worth discussing. It needs to change.

In discussing the topic, however, several people (including me) have pointed out that it's a problem only men can solve. They need to be more emotionally open, more willing to ask for help, more vulnerable to friendships and emotional connection with other men and women they don't want to sleep with. Such suggestions are heavily downvoted and met with "can you imagine if people said that to women about women's issues?!?"

But here's the thing. Women's issues are being raped, beaten by their husbands, murdered, treated like dirt in the workforce, having the safe spaces they carve out for themselves invaded, being discounted when seeking medical care, being paid less for doing the same work, being expected to take care of everyone else instead of themselves. Except for maybe that last point, they are all issues that are being done to them by men. Women can't stop men from being violent.

And women-only spaces are typically used to commune, to feel safe. Men-only spaces are used to exploit and consume women. They aren't equivalent.

But the issues for men are largely being done to themselves by themselves. Suicide and drug addiction are self-inflicted. Women can't stop men from harming themselves any more than they can stop them from harming women. It's not an equivalent problem.

With more people joining Lemmy and other decentralised networks there is a growing shift to the common misogyny and sexism we find on other social media networks (YouTube, Reddit, etc.).

I think it's pretty obvious that the reason is that there are even less women here than other places online. What are your ideas on how to change that? Or do you feel it is a lost cause?

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cross-posted from: https://kbin.social/m/[email protected]/t/623593

Harping on people to get married from up in the ivory tower fails to engage with reality of life in the dating trenches.

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But ladies: brace yourselves. There’s a new one in town...

Last night, I received an unsolicited message from a man – on eBay.

Yes, you heard right: the online shopping portal.

What could the man who tracked me down on eBay hope to find out about me? Is it my penchant for mismatched china, all the better to pour Hendrick’s gin from, at ill-advised Sunday afternoon tea parties? Perhaps it’s my obsession with the exact shade of lipstick favoured by Sylvia Plath?

What he was actually doing, in fact, was going out of his way to contact me to tell me how wrong and how stupid I was; how I “don’t understand capitalism”. So incensed was this stranger, by a tongue-in-cheek piece I’d written sympathising with a Gen Z TikToker who went viral for crying about her first job after graduation, that he went all out to track me down.

"Globally, women’s health is often focused on reproductive and maternal health, aligned with narrow anti-feminist definitions of women’s value and roles in society, while cancer remains wholly underrepresented."