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[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 7 hours ago

Like a Korean slut disneyworld!

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

I wonder if they use Tinder to make friends like they do in Japan. Afaik, Tinder isn't necessarily for dating over there.

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 7 hours ago

A lot of profiles will say things like "only looking for friends" and such, but that's more about image than reality in case someone else sees it (though, yes, everyone knows what is actually going on). There are people who do use it for friends, but it is (or at least was until I got married a few years ago) still used for its, er, intended purpose.

[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 10 hours ago (2 children)

Does Korea have a huge gender imbalance in general?

[โ€“] [email protected] 13 points 8 hours ago

No, but they do treat women like crap. I wouldn't be wanting to meet with random men if I were them, either.

[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 7 hours ago

Not as far as I know, but they make America's political division between the sexes look relatively sane by comparison

[โ€“] [email protected] 69 points 16 hours ago (1 children)
[โ€“] [email protected] 16 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

The "gay" option is probably removed from Korean Tinder from what I know about their government

[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

Korea doesn't support gay people?

[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 8 hours ago

Same-sex relationships aren't criminalized, but that's a far cry from being supported

[โ€“] [email protected] 32 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago)

Ranked competitive dating

[โ€“] [email protected] 37 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

It feels like that where I am in the US when you take into account all the bots.

[โ€“] [email protected] 11 points 11 hours ago

There's sexy single bots in your area that want to chat

[โ€“] [email protected] 36 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

Dating in South Korea is rough in general, more than other Asian countries. Apparently it's devolved into a violent culture war. On one hand, it's no wonder women are unwilling to date. On the other hand, that's going to further fuel desperation and therefore extremist sentiment in men and further the downward spiral of the culture war.

I'm not saying that the male position is right here, but I genuinely do not see a possibility that the culture war stops spiraling

[โ€“] [email protected] 14 points 15 hours ago (2 children)

I've heard about the recent movement, but have no idea what the backstory is. Why are women so upset in south Korea?

[โ€“] [email protected] 12 points 11 hours ago

Moon Channel has videos explaining the historic and cultural context that has led to this:

[โ€“] [email protected] 44 points 15 hours ago (3 children)

Women lose the ability to have a career as soon as there's a hint of a boyfriend. Employers check. They're expected to become mothers, and dedicate their life to taking care of their children, husband and household, while not really having any say in it.

[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 8 hours ago

It's even worse than that. There's a lot of sexual harassment and a plague of men taking upskirt photos.

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 7 hours ago

I wonder what protections they have. Japan has been fighting a similar thing and upping protections and their enforcement, but it's still not where it needs to be.

[โ€“] [email protected] 12 points 14 hours ago

That's horrible , this mentality is horrible for everyone, hope that end soon

[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 16 hours ago

Might as well play lottery.