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Actually, using alcohol could make the problem worse through classical conditioning. By drinking alcohol every time you get socially anxious, it teaches your body that alcohol is coming. That would make your body get even more anxious to make up for the anxiolytic effect of alcohol. Eventually, not only will you be dealing with social anxiety, but also alcohol cravings. You'd be socially anxious and alcohol dependent.
I understand all of that, my comment was a joke. But I appreciate you pointing this out for others.
cheers π»
entirely expected instance name, god bless
omg, is this one of those things where everyone knew they meant something, but I thought it was something else, so I go off on some unprompted lesson of facts and people roll their eyes at me? lol
Used to think this, and absolutely would have ignored me if someone had said this to me at 25, but quitting booze altogether has really evened out exactly those more extreme feelings.
cognitive behavioral therapy for social anxiety can have a huge impact. also, learning diaphragmatic breathing helps regulate your stress response and can de-activate the sympathetic nervous system (and re-engage the parasympathetic nervous system). there is also some promising research emerging regarding sensiomotor psychotherapy.
goddamn i should do cbt??
All therapy is contingent on the quality of the relationship between client and therapist. Thought Records, which are a huge part of formal cbt, can be quite effective in reducing the emotional impact of negative automatic thoughts, which is a very large component of social anxiety.
ow my balls
Is it a new thing? Are people born after 1980 just walking anxiety?
Nope. A very old thing.
People born before 1980 just have other names for it.
There be ghosts in my system!
Just kidding I was born in the '80s, I'm walking anxiety.
Really couldn't have opened with that fact?
I got the cocaine and morphine ready to deal with some ghosts in the blood. What am I supposed to do now?
More cocaine and morphine, obviously.
People with social anxiety born before 1980 didn't have the memes to express themselves
But were there so many of them?
Yes. They just didn't have nearly as many outlets to express it.
Hard to say. Definitely not as many people actually naming their anxiety. It was sort of taboo to talk about mental health plainly.
But a lotttt of folks with dubious coping mechanisms, just repressed and bottled up without even the memes to combat their anomie.
Like a lot of the problems from the past, you basically figured it out yourself or just went off to die in a corner alone and didn't talk about it.
No, people before were too. They just self medicated to the max π·π·π·π·π₯π₯π»πΊπΊ
Social interaction is fight or flight. The other person is thinking about whether to eat you, fuck you, or otherwise exploit you.
Ours is a transactional society.
Me and my buddy off to mutually exploit eachother over some coffee and doughnuts ππ
I can do that in small quantities. Though buddy indicates you've already negotiated a relationship in which one isn't food for the other.
Hypothetically, we're supposed to be civilizations of good neighbors, so that I, Californian can trust any New Jerseyite or Alabaman not to take advantage if I'm a sexy young person in the dark of night needing a lift home. But we suck at crews of more than fifty or so people.
I'm more down for eating my friends personally
Same
Given that there always a combination of words that will end up with you being punched in the jaw, I say it's justified.
"Hello."
Do I punch them or run away? Maybe both??
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