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I swear by Blackwing pencils.

Also, the 'two minute rule', which has really improved my life: "if it takes two minutes or less to do, just do it now; if it takes longer, schedule it." I've got untreated attention issues and it's very easy for me to notice something needing done, and overlook or procrastinate it because it seems inconvenient in the moment. Having a totally painless rule that forces me to acknowledge that thing I should pick up, that trash bag I should change, etc, or, to at least put on my calendar anything I mustn't forget in the long run has been great for me.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I have got a laundry list of quotes made by me. Let me put up some:

  • You have to dream even before you start doing something

  • Overbearing parenting is child abuse

  • Do you want a lovely, smart, well-achieved, conversationally witty wife or not? If yes, first of all, go work on yourself

  • The world's not a fair place. So what are you going to do about it?

  • Everything is learnable

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Not writing "Mr.", "Mrs.", or "Ms." in documents. Waste of ink, typing time, and reading time.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

"what do you want from the store?" "I'm in the mood for chocolate, I'll take some M&"

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I see your blackwings and I raise you my mechanical contestant - the uniball kuru toga. The rotating lead gimmick actually works pretty well and the elite has just such a nice weight to it because the barrel is this nice knurled metal thing (I think the advance upgrade is also metal, but I don't have that one to compare)

Speaking of uniball, while I'm normally a fountain pen adherent, my go to non-fountain pen is the uniball eye. Such a surprisingly nice pen for the price, and while it's not exactly the same, because it's a liquid ink roller ball it's still much nicer to write with because you don't have to apply pressure to make it write.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Tyler's Glamorous Wash. I used to buy the cheapest detergent I could find, and laundry was just a means to an end. Now I look forward to laundry because it freshens up my whole home for a week.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

The power of greyskull

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (2 children)
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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (2 children)

If someone can't explain how something works, they either don't know how it works out don't want you to know how it works.

Things can be complicated and have nuance, but there should be a general basic theory.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (2 children)

The thing is, sometimes you just can't find the right words to explain it in a simple way. It happens to me all the time.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

As far a clothing goes, FIGS Supersoft underscrubs. Having worn plain black T-shirts my whole life and working in healthcare it’s nice being able to wear clothes that make me feel comfortable and kind of not at work, if that makes any sense. Really soft and don’t seem to lose colour! New Balance 574 have always served me well!

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Underwater Hockey. Actually an amazing sport and I am so glad I found it.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

Indo me migoreng noodles blue pack on peanut butter toast. It's so good and easy to eat.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago
  1. Seasonic PSU-s.
  2. Locally roasted coffee that hasn't sat in some dusty warehouse and on shop shelf for 3 years.
  3. Sun Tzu's Art of War.
[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (3 children)

On a light note, I'm a slut for Bethesda, atleast I skipped Fallout 76 but I'm gonna preorder Starfield. I was 11 when Skyrim came out and it's very near and dear to me and I love some aspects of Fallout 4. ESO was also not bad and I play Elder Scrolls Legends. I'm seeing this through to the end bois ✌️.

On a serious note, I swear by never drinking alone or without someone I trust as much as my partner. Nothing bad happened to me but I have several negative experiences with drinking in my family. And technically my dad died riding a motorcycle drunk, but I don't think being sober would have saved him from that specific incident.

I just never ever want to be anything close to an alcoholic. I feel like I would get addicted if it was more convenient and didn't taste bad. Fear of addiction is also why I'm wary of gambling.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

Etnies shoes. I will die with a pair of them on my feet. They're the only ones that are comfortable, wear out in more than a few months, look generic enough to pair them with most of my clothes and are reasonably priced.

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