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submitted 8 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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[–] [email protected] 0 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Why?

[–] [email protected] 7 points 8 months ago (3 children)

13/30 is rather problematic

[–] [email protected] 10 points 8 months ago

That's not about the gap. That's about the age. That's an entirely different thing.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (1 children)

What's 13/30 mean? I hope you don't mean 13yo. Why would you think that's what I meant by age gap?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 months ago (1 children)

… a 13 year old with a 30 year old…

[–] [email protected] -3 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (1 children)

Why would you assume that from just saying "age gap"?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 8 months ago (2 children)

… I was making a joke about it by saying ‘depends on the age gap lol’…

Why are you getting defensive?

Ofc consenting adult relationships with large age gaps are generally fine with some exceptions.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 8 months ago

I got the joke. Made perfect sense in the context of the thread.