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[–] [email protected] 40 points 1 month ago (6 children)

"Why didn't you show your work, so I can see how you think?"

Because I did it in my head and got the right answer. This isn't about you.

[–] [email protected] 33 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

The "show your work" is about checking if you understand the logic in getting the answer. We had lots of questions out of 5. Right answer was only worth 1 mark, the other 4 were the steps and reasoning. This type of setup punishes those that skip right to the answer, or have memorized answers. But rewards those that show they know the concepts

[–] [email protected] 24 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Ok but forcing me to show my work was one of those things I hated until I was extremely grateful for it. I didn’t need to show my work to prove my answer was correct in elementary school, but it was a slow drift from “I can do it in my head with ease” to “I need to document my steps so I can check where the error occurred”. Also “it’s not enough to be correct, you need to be correct with evidence” is the reality for people who do math for a living

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Best I can do is lots of evidence proving I'm incorrect...

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

Better than no evidence

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Literally every single damn math class I ever took

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

I had to retake an algebra 2 exam multiple times because they thought I was cheating- including sitting IN the principal's office, yet the scores were all within points of each other.

They were so fucking salty about it too when there was no "gotcha." I wish I could time travel back to advocate for myself, because I would have TORN THEM A NEW ONE. My parents were apathetic cowards.

Like all cutting injustices, it's stuck with me.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I would have sued them personally for defamation just under the small claims court amount ($10k) with a jury demand. Small claims cases in my state cannot be dismissed for cause of action in my state. They could ask for a summary judgement, but that would still cost more in attorneys fees than just settling.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 month ago

That's probably what better parents might have done. Mine did nothing.

Of course, to bring it up now is only to be met with a constant stream of, "I don't remember that."

The tree remembers what the axe forgets.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Suing who? Admins right? Because you wouldn't get much out of teachers. (In the US anyway) 😂

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago

You can put a lien on their house if they didn't pay. Then if they want to ever sell the house or get another loan they have to pay you.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I deconstructed the underlying methodology of the creator of the system in order to understand their internalized blind spots or artificial limitations imposed on them by unrelated third parties at the time of the systems creation.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago

It’s funny, because in high school, I remember getting poor marks on proofs - and HATING them - because I was like “this is so fucking obvious jesus tap dancing christ” and just… skipped lots of steps.

Fast forward to college and logic theory: that ended up being one of my favorite classes, because machine theory and problem reduction is a fascinating domain, and FAR more interesting than “prove this shape is the shape we say it is” or whatever vapid bullshit they had us doing in high school.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

Lol I hated this too, I really did. But like a lot of answers here, I can appreciate it somewhat now. Especially when trying to learn to code.

I think learning to break down problems might even be MORE valuable to people like us with ADHD, even if we hate it, because we tend to intuit our way through things by the seat of our pants.

Also sometimes I got really lucky and arrived at the correct answer in a bizarre and inconsistent way.

In the end, it's very valuable to be able to communicate your process to others. Even if it's irritating and awful to get through.

I also wonder if those like myself, who really REALLY hated math until my brain started to appreciate it in my adult years, just gnash our teeth at these memories because it made us feel stupid when we struggled to keep up with that slow, methodical raw-logic stuff...

EDIT: I can see you were the polar opposite of myself, ridiculously GOOD at math but found it a waste of time showing how you got there. That makes sense. I have zero idea what that's like lol.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

I wouldn't have minded it nearly as much, had they not accused me of cheating on the exam. That sticks in the craw.